July 6 1931 – February 21, 2020
Former President,
Massachusetts Medical-Legal Society, Dies at 88.
Peter J. Leahy, of Milton, MA and Little Diamond Island, ME,
died peacefully at home, surrounded by his children and his loving wife, Donna
Crump Leahy, on Friday, February 21st, 2020.
Born in Cork City, Ireland, in 1931, he was the youngest and
most difficult of three sons born to an English mother and an Irish father, Frances
Farrell and Michael Leahy. His childhood passions were varied, intense, and
lasting: ships and the sea, aviation, theater, film, history, and music. For
his 15th birthday, he begged for a 8mm movie camera, which he used
to document the grand transatlantic ocean liners coming and going from the Port
of Cobh; dreaming of mid-century glamour and adventure.
His desire to be an actor thwarted by his parents, he was
guided toward University and Medical School, graduating University College Cork
Medical School in 1954 and heading straight for the “The States.” He arrived in
New York Harbor on September 4th, 1954, aboard the MV Brittanic
After interning in Pennsylvania, Dr. Leahy joined Carney
Hospital in Boston, where he was Chief Resident in 1957/58, and would practice
Internal Medicine through the 1990’s. He served in various leadership roles at
Carney and surrounding hospitals, as Medical director of the MBTA, and as Senior
Medical Examiner for the Federal Aviation Authority (New England.) He was an
Assistant Professor of Medicine at Boston University and Tufts University.
He practiced medicine and life with kindness, heart, wit,
compassion and an unwavering loyalty to his patients, family and friends.
He married Ann Quinlan in 1963, and they had four children, who
survive him, Shelagh, Michael, Peter, and Annie. He was absolute in his desire
to shake off the weight of his own constricted and “Victorian” upbringing, and
to raise his children with warmth, love, and openness. He raced home to put
them to bed at night and tell them stories, insisted on good manners and ample expressions
of “I love you,” and generally indoctrinated them into his interests.
He made many transatlantic crossings, partial to Cunard. He
took deep pride in his American-ness, and in his American children, who were
once described by an Irish friend as “very well behaved, for Yanks.” He got a
kick out of that.
Dr. Leahy was active in Community Theater, performing in countless
plays and Gilbert & Sullivan productions in and around Boston. He acquired
his pilot’s license in 1972 and flew Piper Cherokees out of Norwood Airport. He
felt a real man should be able to whirl a woman around the dance floor, and was
a competitive Ballroom Dancer for a time. He kept boats at Dorchester Yacht
Club, Hingham Yacht Club, and in Portland, Maine. He was an avid sailor and a
solid downhill skier.
In 1970, he bought a small cottage on Little Diamond Island,
in Casco Bay, where his family has enjoyed 50 years of nature, community, and
memory making.
When his first marriage ended in the late 1970’s, he
suffered over the loss of his dream of a family life, but remained first and
foremost, “Dad;” fathering at a level unusual for his generation. The primary
instruction to everyone he worked with was that his children were to be “put
through immediately” if they called.
In 1999, he met Donna Crump, the love of his life. For 20
years, these two peas-in-a-pod loved, laughed, and lived. They became grandparents
to eight very interesting new people, traveled the world on those Cunard ships,
attended theater and symphony performances, summered in Maine, wintered on
Marco Island and delighted in their good fortune to find and enjoy one another
at last.
He liked to say about Donna, “Boy, did I land on my feet or
what?”
After closing his private practice in 1993, Dr. Leahy became
Medical Director of Tufts Health Plan, and served in that role until 2001.
Along the way he leaned in to Forensic Medicine, which had intrigued him for
years. He became a State Medical Examiner in 1978 and was President of the
Massachusetts Medical-Legal Society from 1994 – 2001. He worked until he became
ill last year, shepherding a new generation of physicians and leaders along, including
Chief Medical Examiner Dr. Mindy Hull, a protégé and friend, who recently presented
him with a Commendation from the Governor of Massachusetts honoring his
contributions to the field.
The Investigative Unit of the MA Medical Examiner’s office
will be named in Dr. Leahy’s honor.
He had very warm hands and a great roar of a laugh. He
thought it was ridiculous to wear an overcoat, even in New England winters, “if
you’re just getting in and out of the car.”
He had no patience for elevators and took the stairs two at a time. He
was stubborn and prickly, but soft and deeply sentimental. He was frugal and
practical, but all in for a bit of luxury: He loved lamb with rosemary, Irish sausages,
and a square of chocolate after dinner. He hovered around acquiring a bottle
green Jaguar Sedan, but never pulled the trigger. He liked giving the women in
his life jewelry and pressing cash into the hands of his grandchildren. At his
first chemo appointment, when a nurse asked “Can I get you anything?” he
answered, “I’d love a Manhattan.”
In addition to his wife and children, Dr. Leahy is survived
by his grandchildren, Olivia and Leo Ruckenstein of Brookline, MA, Anastasia and Frances Leahy of Brooklyn NY,
and Hugh and Linus Carey of Portland, ME. His insistence on being addressed as
“Grandfather” led to eye-rolls when the first grandchild arrived but now we
can’t imagine him by any other name. He
also considered his wife’s grandchildren, Anthony and Sophia Loricco, of
Holliston, MA, his own.
He is also survived by and was loved by his children’s
partners, Andrei, Nina, and Mike, by Donna’s daughters, Dina and Jennie and
their partners Stacey and Tom, by the loving community of Little Diamond
Island, and by his treasured friend and unofficial third daughter, Jeanne O’Brien
of Milton, MA.
He was cared for with respect, collegiality, and warmth
throughout his illness by his Internist, Dr. Mark Ostrem, by Dr. Ann LaCasce
and Dr. Laskshmi Nayak at Dana Farber, and by numerous nurses at the Brigham Hospital,
who were charmed by the way he always made a point of asking them about their
lives.
Dr. Leahy and his wife have been generous supporters of
numerous charities, and ask that donations in his name be made to The Pine
Street Inn.
There will be a gathering at Dolan Funeral Home, 460 Granite
Avenue, EAST MILTON SQUARE, Sunday, March 1st, with visiting
beginning at 12 Noon and a service at 2:30PM.
Later this summer his family will host a celebration of his
life on his beloved Little Diamond Island.