Edward J. McCarthy, Jr.

It is with profound sadness that the family of Edward (Eddie) James McCarthy, Jr. of Milton and Chatham, MA announce his sudden passing on April 24, 2020. Ed was loved by all and will be mourned by everyone he knew, and most greatly by his devoted and beloved wife of over 30 years Catherine (Katie) Doonan McCarthy and his cherished son Edward (Teddy) James McCarthy, III.
Born August 1, 1959 and raised in Milton, Massachusetts, Eddie was the beloved son of the late Edward James McCarthy and Martina C. Sullivan McCarthy. Ed had a very close and loving relationship with both of his parents. Along with being wonderful parents, his father, Ed Sr., had a stellar 70 year (1929-1999) career with the Federal Reserve in Boston, and his mother was an accomplished watercolor artist, in her own right. Following in his father’s footsteps, Ed made his career in the financial world, and he also possessed his mother’s artistic talents, demonstrated through his musical ability.
Eddie graduated from Xaverian Brothers High School in ‘78 (Westwood, MA) and continued onto Northeastern University graduating in 1983 with a degree in Finance. Upon graduation, Ed moved to New York and worked on Wall Street, becoming a highly respected bond trader at a very young age. He started his career with Carroll, McEntee & McGinley, and then joined County NatWest Government Securities, where he made lifelong friends and quickly rose through the ranks to Vice President, at both institutions.
After a number of years dating Katie long distance Ed made his way back to the Boston area in 1989 and joined Fidelity Investments as a Government Securities Trader. Ed was one of the initial and founding employees of Fidelity’s Capital Markets division. He was FCM’s primary trader for US Treasuries and assumed responsibility for Fidelity’s participation in the US Treasury Auction in 2014. With over 35 years of experience, Ed was one of the most knowledgeable traders in the industry and was highly regarded as an expert in Government Bond trading. He served as a mentor to numerous colleagues throughout his career. After 28 years, and much soul searching, Ed retired from Fidelity. Bored with retirement, his passion for the financial markets called him back into service consulting with many colleagues near and far. Ed’s father was a founding member of the Government Bond Club of Boston, where he too, was a member.
When Ed and Katie met on New Year’s Eve, 1984, the fireworks began. They were married in 1989 and in 1998, they welcomed, with absolute joy their son, Teddy. They made their home in Milton and then in 2012 spent summers and many weekends at their ‘happy place” in Chatham, MA. Ed treasured spending time with his family, being a husband, partner and golf coach to Katie, and father and best friend to Teddy. He and Teddy enjoyed an incredible and enviable bond.
Eddie was one of those rare people who was so easy to know. He was friendly to all, always happy to meet new people, and had such a warm and welcoming demeanor. He had a great and infectious laugh. He was a best friend to all. Ed was often seen in full golf attire, with coffee in hand, sporting shorts in mid winter. Eddie was never happier than being with his wife, son and extended family no matter what the occasion. He especially enjoyed being on the Cape at his home in Chatham gearing up for a day of golf. Ed was a long-time member of Wollaston Golf Club in Milton, MA and the Eastward Ho! Country Club in Chatham, MA. Ed was a former member of the Milton-Hoosic Club in Canton, where he scored a hole in one in 1987 and won the coveted Robinson Invitational in 2006. He also served on the board of Governors while a member. The Milton-Hoosic Club held a special place in his heart.
He was an avid golfer who learned the sport at an early age from his father and passed his love of the game onto his son Teddy. Ed was also a talented and accomplished drummer who played for enjoyment but also dabbled playing in a band. The band made several appearances at the infamous Beachcomber in Quincy, where Katie was his biggest fan (#1groupie). He was always honored to be asked to make a guest appearance on drums at his many friends’ weddings. He passed this love of music onto his son Teddy, who enjoyed playing the drums as a child and most recently began learning to play the guitar under the tutelage of his cherished father.
In addition to his wife and son, Eddie is also survived by his brother-in-law Robert (Rob) Doonan and wife Karin of Cohasset, brother-in-law Jonathan (Jay) Doonan and wife Katie of Needham, sister-in-laws Marya Doonan of Naples, FL, and Gretchen (Noeltner) Doonan of Dedham. He was predeceased by his brother-in-law, James M. (Jim) Doonan, Jr. and his loving in-laws, Dr. James M. and Mary P. Doonan. Ed was also the adored uncle of Patrick, Connor, Brendan, Ellen, Terence, and Cameron Doonan. All of his in-laws and his nephews and niece always loved spending time with him no matter the season or the reason. Ed also leaves behind numerous beloved cousins.
Due to current restrictions, a celebration of life will be scheduled at a later date. In lieu of flowers, donations in Ed’s memory can be made to the American Heart Association, 300 5th Avenue, Waltham, MA 02451.
Guestbook Entries
I’ve known Eddie for nearly 50 years. Back to days his dad walking fonzi- that was the fastest little dog- I much prefer Eddie and Cody pace despite the January shorts!.ed and Katie were an integral part of our Halloween parties and countless other gatherings.the quiche will lessen it but we all know the truth of it: everybody loved Ed, what a quality to truly possess. He had the gift of ease, of listening, and of chatting. I’m so proud to consider him a friend, for the example he lived.inseparable from his Katie and the father he is to teddy .thank you Ed for simply “being the best”. Richie
Katie, Ted
Maureen the boys and I were heartbroken to hear about Ed.
One of the great ones. So happy to have known him.
Wishing you the best in this crazy time. We are thinking about the two of you.
Katie and Teddy, Eddie was larger than life, simply the best guy ever ! His memories will live on through you both ❤️ Thoughts and Prayers to your family , Joe Nancy and the girls
Gonna miss that sweet swing and great stories. He was “The King”!
My sincere condolences, I graduated Xaverian Brothers with Ed with many fond memories, we remained friends since. Rest In Peace Ed.
I was terribly sorry to hear about the loss of Eddie. He was a real class act and true “good guy“. He was a very thoughtful and caring person I know he always took time to ask you how you were. I never heard him say unkind word about anyone.God bless him, Katie and Teddy.
So heartbroken to hear of the passing of Ed. He was the best friend anyone could ever have and always had a special glowing smile which made everyone’s day. I will always have the fondest memories of Ed and he will be greatly missed. Katie and Teddy you have my deepest sympathies.
My deepest condolences to Katie and Ted. I remember Eddie as a childhood friend he on Rockwell place me on bracket st. I remember his first drum set, we actually had a little band. Ed on drums, myself and Jonny Linsky on any (air) instrument we could think of. Crashing around in the newly decorated basement. Scouts together as his mother was our Den mother, also quite the artist, his Dad reserved always in a suit. Eddie and I would tear through the neighbor on our bicycles. Always the athlete, he could run faster than any kid we knew.. Our paths Separated as we got older, but always would catch up and share some laughter which would end with ” im glad we this time lets do it again” yup, lets.
MarthaAnn Kelley CSJ
Katie
You and your family are in my heart and prayer.
So heartbroken to hear about Ed’s passing. Such a wonderful, genuine human being. I loved to run into him, whether at Starbucks, golf course, or a Milton/Chatham restaurant. Katie and Teddy, please know that many, many people have you and Ed in their thoughts.
So sorry to hear about the loss of Ed. He was a true gentleman and had such an easy way about him that he made everyone feel comfortable and welcomed just being around him. Ed always asked how you were and sincerely listened. He will be greatly missed.
Eddie was one of the friendliest persons I have ever known. I’ll miss his big smile on the practice green at Wollaston and his big heart. My deepest condolences to his family. Rest in Peace!
Katie and Teddy- we are all heart broken to hear the news.
Eddie was beloved by all who were lucky enough to know him. He will remembered fondly forever. Our thoughts are with you and your family. – Dan and Maureen
Dearest Katie & Teddy,
We are heartbroken for you & your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Katie,
I am just so sorry for you and Teddy.
Katie and Teddy, I wouldlike to extend my deepst sympathy to you both for the sudden loss of your beloved Eddie. He was truly one of the kindest and most sincere individuals I have ever known. He was loved by all who knew him. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time.
Sincerely,
Joe Jenkins
Katie and Teddie,
Was so heartbroken to hear about Ed, wishing you peaceful memories as you celebrate and mourn his loss. One of the truly good ones, gone much too soon.
Love,
Sharon, George Meghan, Liam and Lauren Donelan
Dear Katie and Teddy,
You are in our hearts, on our mind, and in our prayers. Ed was such a gentleman, always so friendly and always fun to be with. His kindness extended to our entire family. Joanie loved to talked to him on visits to the Plate…her favorite customer. We are with you in the coming days. Feel the strength from the many people who had the honor of knowing Ed. All our love, Meg and Chris
My deepest sympathies to Katie & Teddy. I was lucky enough to call Eddie a coworker at Fidelity Capital Markets for 12 years. Hearing the news was absolutely heartbreaking. Like so many others, I will remember fondly how kind hearted he was to friends and coworkers. You are in my prayers during this difficult time.
Katie,
Just hearing the news that your beloved is in heaven. I am here for you and will call you next week. I should be in town after mother’s day. I love you and God is with you, your family and all of us.
Love , Michelle
Katie and Teddy my heart is broken. What will I do without my Monday thru Friday Dunkin chats with Eddie. He always kept me updated on Teddy’s successes and bragged about what a great family he has. Thanks for sharing Eddie with me.
Best and Sincerely
Mary & Mike Whittaker
Eddie was kind and thoughtful, always upbeat , positive and pleasure to be around . He will be missed . Jim coffey
Katie and Teddy, Barbara and I were stunned and profoundly saddened to hear of the loss of Eddie. Our friendship dated back to Ed’s junior year at Northeastern when he interned with us in the Boston CM&M office. No matter where our careers took us, we always stayed in touch for more than 40 years. Ed had a gift for trading securities as he maneuvered through some of the most difficult and confusing periods in our country’s economic history. More importantly, Ed was a true friend, a wonderful person, a devoted family man and an outstanding gentleman with a terrific sense of humor. I cannot tell you how much we will miss him.
My sincerest condolences on your loss from a classmate of Xaverian Bothers High School Class of 78. May you find consolation in the positive impact that Ed had on so many, and peace in the love he engendered in his fellow human beings. May he rest in peace.
When I heard the news , I dropped my phone in shock followed by a sense of profound sadness.
I think I have known Eddie as long as anyone as I have know him since he was a baby.
My father had introduced Eddie’s father to my mother’s Regis College roommate that ended in their marriage and Eddie’s birth .
I remember , years later asking my father about the McCarthys first date and he said with a big smile he knew it went well when Eddie’s father( a confirmed bachelor at that time) told him that evening that Eddie’s mother was
” a keeper ” . Eddie you were also a “keeper ” and you will be truly missed by all that knew you and especially all the Burkes.
I had text from Eddie a week before he died. He told me what he missed most about this stay in place ,it was to see all his friends and to have a draft beer .
Eddie rest assured , there will be more than one draft consumed in your honor.
Katie,Teddy our prayers are with you.
Dear Katie and Teddy,
So very sorry for you loss, such beautiful tributes to him.
Keeping you all in my prayers.
Sincerely,
Carolyn Shea
Katie and Teddy, I was deeply saddened to learn of Ed’s passing. Ed and I met when our son’s played town travel hockey, maybe at the PeeWee level. Ed was one of those rare people who made me feel immediately at ease, with his permanent smile, and self-effacing, easy manner. Any time I’d bump into Ed around town, we always took a few moments to talk about our sons and the state of the world. I was extremely interested in his work and he appeared interested in mine. There was never enough time to exchange all the anecdotes and data, but there always seemed to be another opportunity every few weeks to stop and say “hello”. It brings me to tears thinking that I — but especially both of you — won’t see him again. He was a great guy and I will always remember, and forever appreciate, how welcomed he made me feel. My best to you both.
My condolences to the McCarthy family,
I first met Eddie when we worked together at Carroll McEntee & McGinley in the mid 1980’s. Eddie was trading and I was in sales in Boston. Eddie eventually moved to Fidelity Capital Markets where he traded fixed income and we stayed in touch and did business for many years. Later in our careers and retirement, I would see Ed and his brother-in-law’s Rob and Jay Doonan at the Clover Club of Boston seasonal dinners. This past January at the winter dinner, my son Dan and I had the pleasure of sitting at a table with Ed, Jay and Rob. We all had the most enjoyable evening swapping old stories and joking around. As a matter of fact, Ed and I sent text messages and emails to make plans to get together for lunch and play golf in warmer weather. I was stunned and saddened to hear of Ed’s passing. He was one of the nicest and most genuine people I have ever had the pleasure of meeting in my career in the bond business. He will be sorely missed by everyone.
Kevin Kelly
Katie and Teddy,
I was so sorry to hear about Ed’s passing. I always enjoyed talking to you when you were out for a burger and a beer. He will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Teddy during this difficult time. Sean
Dear Katie and Teddy, we are so sorry for your incredible loss. Ed was the best guy in town. He was a joy to see and talk to. We all shared great conversations with Ed, you could talk to him about anything. Our hearts go out to you and our memories are dear. Please know that we are here for you at any time of day.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Love, Ginny, Bob, Liam and Eve Brearley
Katie & Ed,
My heart broke when I got the sad news from Cousin Jean Greer. Ed and I spent some fun days on the golf course and he was among my favorite cousins and a kindred spirit in finance. We were scheduled to have lunch with Ed earlier this year and sadly missed it. We are so sorry.
Mark Sullivan, Louise, Jacqueline, Alexander, Victoria
I only knew Ed from EHCC. He was convivial golfer always felt like a friend. I really only knew him well enough to wish I knew him better. His presence will be sorely missed.
My sincere condolences…he is joining so many on the upper nine.
Hi KATIE! I’m so sad to hear this news. Eddie was a first class guy who insisted on calling me “Mr Feloney “ when we met at Dunkin’ Donuts or elsewhere in East Milton Square. He played the drums at Mary Leigh’s wedding and was terrific! We played golf a few times and W0W he could hit a golf ball. My love and hug’s to you and Teddy John Feloney
Katie & Teddy,
We are heartbroken to hear of Eddie’s passing and want you to know we are thinking of you and praying for you during this sad and difficult time. He obviously was a man who touched and influenced so many lives. John, Nick and I have fond memories of meeting you all in Bermuda and reestablishing our friendship on the Cape. With our deepest condolences to you both,
Amy, John & Nicholas Veale
I have had many memorable rounds of golf with my friend Ed! We were childhood friends in East Milton . Years lster we were reaquanted at The Hoo! He was one of the most caring, humble and genuine people I have ever met! I will miss my friend! God bless Katie and Teddy! Regards, Michael
Katie and Teddy,
We were truly saddened when we received the news that we had lost Eddie. He was a truly great man. We had just recently run into each other at the Clover Club dinner. If I had only known that would be the last time we would speak. We are truly saddened by the news. Eddie was one of the nicest guys I ever knew. He always had a big smile and hello every time we met. I got to know Eddie when I coached Teddy at Milton Youth Hockey. We became fast friends despite the fact that he was a Xaverian guy and I went to CM. He was always a pleasure to speak with after the games. He would replay all of Teddies high lites from the game. He lived for Teddy. I feel so lucky that I was fortunate enough to have known him. He made a huge impact on anybody who was lucky enough to have met him.
Our deepest condolences, The Hoey Family
Katie – I just wanted to tell you how sad I was to hear of Eddie’s passing. I know it is a devastating time for you. Unfortunately you have to deal with this during the pandemic which has not allowed families to adequately, and properly, say goodbye to family members through well attended wakes, a funeral and burial. I’m so sorry. Had we not been able to say goodbye to Mom in that way, I don’t know how I would feel. Giving her eulogy is the proudest moment of my life and I’m so sorry that you have been have been robbed of that – at least for now. Please accept my condolence and send it on to Teddy.
Dear Katie and Teddy,
Our hearts are broken. We loved Eddie, you and Teddy so much and of course, his parents. We have so many fond memories. Baby sitting for Teddy and … Vince Gill. Remember? and so much more. Please know how deeply sorry we are. There are no words. We pray, that in time, you will find peace and comfort. We are so very sorry.
Love,
Mary Ann and Rob, Alexandra and Adam
Sorry to hear about Ed’s passing. I always enjoyed talking to Ed while working at Fidelity. He was a very positive person. Ed was very proud of his son, who was doing well at Xaverian. Great guy who will missed by many.
Dear Katie & Teddy,
So sorry for your loss. I remember Eddie playing the drums at his parents house in Milton during our Christmas dinner visits and being entertained with tricks by Tiger the cat. Eddie Sr., Martina, and Eddie Jr. were always so welcoming to the Gillis Family. I am sad not to have connected with all of you in Chatham, I hope to meet you both someday.
Love,
Jeanie Gillis (Extended Cousin)
Dear Katie and Teddy:
I am so sorry to hear of Eddie’s passing. Although I only spent time with him for the three years that we were next door neighbors, he made an indelible impression. Reading the obituary made me chuckle because my memory of Eddie was him in his golf outfit cleaning out the back of his car, swinging and fiddling with his clubs and organizing his golf bag. It seemed that Eddie did more dreaming of golf than actually playing. But that may have just been our stage in life as we both had little ones. I’ve loved seeing the family Christmas cards and seeing Teddy grow up to be a young man. Teddy, I know how much your father loved everything about you. My heart goes out to both of you. Losing a loved one is never easy but the two of you each lost your best friend. This is just not fair. With love and prayers, Andy Oatway
I am so sorry to read of the very untimely passing of Eddie. During one summer in Ed’s college years, he served as a summer intern in the office of Salomon Brothers & Hutzler in Boston. I was the government bond specialist, and Ed was assigned to me. I recognized early on that Ed had the ingredients to succeed in the financial business: he was smart, he was motivated to succeed, and he had a personality that suited him to be able to interact successfully with the many varied types in the financial world. My instincts proved correct, as evidenced by Ed’s successful career in the bond business. Although we didn’t keep in close touch over the years, I would occasionally run into him, and we would reminisce fondly of “the good old days” at Salomon Brothers. He was also a “good guy,”, just like his Dad, the legendary Ed Sr. of the Federal Reserve Bank of Boston…My sincere condolences to Ed’s wife and son……Frank Gaul
My Dear Katie,
I just came across Ed’s Obituary in the Milton Times, I am shocked and saddened. Anytime I would run into you and Ed, all I could think was that you two were a match made in Heaven. God Bless you and Teddy and I’ll keep you in my prayers.
Patti Queeney
I was shocked and saddened to learn of Eddie’s passing. I first met Ed as a polite teenager when I worked for his dad at the Federal Reserve of Boston in the mid -70’s. From this early beginning our paths crossed for the next 35 years. Eddie was a colleague at CM&M and then a customer at NatWest and Fidelity. Always a gentleman, Ed will be truly missed.
My condolences to the McCarthy Family. Ed was a true gentleman and a good friend back in the day. I last heard from Ed a little over a year ago when called by another old friend, Tim Corcoran (XBHS Class of “78”) who was with him. They were both solving the problems of the world when they called me. We reminisced about the old days at Xaverian and laughed endlessly. It was difficult to hear from Tim that he passed. He will be missed.
My thoughts and prayers will be with the family.
Brian P. MacPhee
Special Agent, NCIS (Ret.)
Xaverian, Class of “78”