Marie Gardner
Marie Helena Gardner (Mackin) of Quincy formerly of Dorchester died suddenly on November 3, 2020. Beloved and cherished mother of Gregory Carabitses and his wife Sarah of Stoneham, Emily Carabitses and Michael Gillis of Dorchester, Abigail Gardner and Patrick Doyle, Jeshurun Gardner, Benjamin Gardner and Jade Juliano and Rebecca Gardner all of Quincy. Loving sister of Louise Mackin, John Mackin, David Mackin, Joseph Mackin, Frances Lawlor, Joanne Mackin, Jane Mengesha, Paul Mackin, Virginia O’Brien, Robert Mackin, Elizabeth Garvey and the late James Mackin. Daughter of the late John E. Mackin Jr. and Emily (Eastman) Mackin of Dorchester. Cherished “Gram” to Hannah Hall, Madelyn Carabitses, Shane Gillis, Jayden Gardner, Maximus Doyle and the late Eva Gillis.
Marie was born, raised and educated in St. Gregory Parish in Dorchester. She took great pride in being one of 13 siblings and never shied away from telling others of her large family. She was a proud sister and daughter. Marie’s purpose on earth was to nurture, both as a mother and a nurse, and she fulfilled her purpose to the fullest. She loved her children and her grandchildren fiercely, with every fiber of her being. If there ever was a soul made of true pureness and love it was that of Marie’s. She worked as a dedicated nurse for many years, most recently employed at Brookdale Assisted Living in Quincy. She loved being a nurse and her compassion for others was felt near and far. Marie, affectionately known to her family as Rere, had many passions in life. She was a creative soul who could sing as if she was an angel on Earth, which she truly was. She loved her music, her knickknacks, a good yard sale, decorating, and had a past history of stenciling every wall or cabinet she possibly could. She was an amazing poet and a free spirit. She loved a nice cup of tea or a scallop plate from the Clam Box. She enjoyed the simple things in life such as seeing her family, caring for her grandchildren, the warmth of the sun and nature. She loved making her famous baked mac and cheese. She loved relaxing in the backyard watching her grandchildren enjoy the summer fun.
Marie’s heart was most content while at the beach. Every summer any free time she had was often spent at Nantasket Beach with her chair snuggled firmly into the sand at the water’s edge. She would sit for hours listening to the beauty of the crashing waves while indulging in the summer’s warm sun.
Marie is loved beyond words and missed beyond measure. Her selfless character, strength and hard work was admired by all. We know her spirit is at peace with Jesus as she so often spoke of. She was a firm believer of entering Heaven’s gates after her time on this Earth was done. We know her legacy of love, compassion and joy will be carried on by her children, grandchildren and all those whose lives she touched.
Relatives and friends are respectfully invited to attend visiting hours on Thursday 3-7PM in the Dolan Funeral Home, 1140 Washington Street, Dorchester Lower Mills. Mass of Christian Burial will be Celebrated on Friday at 11AM in St. Gregory Church, 2215 Dorchester Avenue. Relatives and friends invited. Interment in Cedar Grove Cemetery, Dorchester.
Guestbook Entries
My heart goes out to all who loved Marie. May memories of her bring you peace.
Francie and family, I am so so sorry to hear thru my sisters about Marie. I will pray for you. Remembering the good old days on Richmond St and that Marie was such a lovely person.
Ann Marie O’Sullivan
I miss you.
To Aunt Marie’s children, grandchildren and siblings; we are all so heartbroken by the devastating loss of Aunt Marie. These words were so beautiful and I loved learning about her love for the beach, stenciling, and that she loved being a nurse. I often proudly tell people I am a nurse because it’s in my blood, and go on to say how many of my aunts followed in my grandmothers footsteps. I am thinking of you all. I am praying for your whole family and sending love.
Love cousin Laura (, Paul’s daughter)
So very sorry for your loss.
Love you forever
Virginia, I’m so sorry for your loss, praying for your entire family during this difficult time.
Dear David, Sally, Sarah, John and the entire Mackin family,
I’m so very sorry for the loss of your sister and friend. Know that I wish I could be physically there for you all. But also know that I am with you in mind, heart and spirit. Praying for each and every one of you.
I love you all.🙏💔
Marie was a kind loving. God has wrapped his loving arms around her and brought her home. God bless all of her family and friends. Hoping your hearts will heal with all the wonderful memories of love from Marie and your mom.
To Jane, Virginia and all the family. I’m so sorry for this tragic loss .
Marie was a good spirit. I have fond memories of us singing all the old tunes. She had such a beautiful voice ! Which came from such a beautiful person . Peace
I love you forever mom
Don’t think of her as gone away
her journey’s just begun
life holds so many facets
this earth is only one.
Just think of her as resting
from the sorrows and the tears
in a place of warmth and comfort
where there are no days or years
Think how she must be wishing
that we could know today
how nothing but our sadness
can really pass away.
And think of her as living
in the hearts of those she touched
for nothing loved is ever lost
and she was loved so much.
Dear Mackin Family,
I am so very sorry to hear about your beloved Marie…
Remembering all the fun times we had back in the ’60s at the crossroads of Butler and Richmond and hanging out on the bridge.
You are all in my thoughts & prayers. Xo
Dear Mackin Family,
I am so sorry to hear of the tragic loss of Marie. I hope your fond memories can get you through your grieving. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
You can only have one mother
Patient kind and true;
No other friend in all the world,
Will be the same to you.
When other friends forsake you,
To mother you will return,
For all her loving kindness,
She asks nothing in return.
As we look upon her picture,
Sweet memories we recall,
Of a face so full of sunshine,
And a smile for one and all.
Sweet Jesus, take this message,
To our dear mother up above;
Tell her how we miss her,
And give her all our love.
What a great woman! Marie was such an old soul. So many St. Greg’s memories that she was part of! Class of 1974 we will always remember you!!
It’s been 20 days without you and it feels like a lifetime. We miss you every second of every day 💔
On behalf of the McDevitt Family I send deepest condolences.Our families were connected in so many ways. Sending Love and Peace. Dan
A beautiful life well lived. Her heart and soul live on every minute of every day through the beautiful family, children and friends her life was surrounded by. She rests with the kind and loving souls of our family who continue to touch our lives every day. We miss them always, but know their spirits and love are never gone and never absent.
Nancy Lee Sceery
Missing you more as the days turn into weeks. We will never forget your beautiful soul.