David M. Butler
David M. Butler, 70, of Milton, Mass, died peacefully surrounded by his family on Friday, June 5 after a long and heroic struggle with lymphoma.
Mr. Butler was born in Boston to Charles Kingston Butler and Eleanor (Hannon) Butler and grew up in Roslindale. He attended Sacred Heart School, was a member of the Class of 1967 at Boston Latin School, and graduated from The New Preparatory School in 1968. He received his B.A. from Boston College in 1973, and a J.D. from Suffolk University Law School in 1977.
He practiced law in Quincy for almost 40 years.
He leaves behind his beloved wife of 49 years, Elizabeth Gavin Butler, (Betsy) and his three sons, David M. Butler Jr. and his wife Hillary of Austin, Texas, Patrick G. Butler and his partner Meghan Foley of Hull, Mass, and Andrew Chadwick Butler of Dorchester, He was the adored “Papa” to his grandchildren, Bridget and Rory Butler of Austin, Texas.
He is also survived by three brothers, Charles K. Butler and his wife Ellen of Plymouth, Kevin Butler and his wife Marylou of Scituate and Thomas J. Butler and his wife Rosalba of Allandale, New Jersey, and by several nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his sister Mary E. Butler (Lynn) and his brother Christopher Butler. He is also survived by his cousin and godmother, Virginia Fortin of Quincy. He was a much-loved brother-in-law to the Gavin family.
An extended trip to Europe in the late 1960’s, with his lifelong friend, John Craven, ignited his love of travel. Over the years, David and Betsy travelled extensively in Europe and the United States. A recent visit to Liverpool, England in August was a particularly happy time. David was a member of the Erie Society of Boston, and the Squirrels Club of Quincy, and was involved with Boy Scout Troop 3 of Milton, when his sons were younger. He was a past member of the Neighborhood Club, various professional associations and groups, and for a time taught paralegal studies at Quincy Junior College. He was a voracious reader, an almost daily visitor at the Milton Public Library and enjoyed political discussion and analysis.
Visiting hours will be held at the Dolan Funeral Home, 460 Granite Street, EAST MILTON SQUARE on Wednesday, June 10 from 4 to 8pm. Funeral services are private. Burial will be in Milton Cemetery.
In lieu of flowers donations may be made to the Dana Farber Cancer Center, 450 Brookline Avenue, Boston, MA 02215.
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So sorry to hear about David’s passing. I last saw him a few months ago when he was at Milton Hospital. My prayers are with you.
I don’t know you I’m so sorry to hear about your brother passing he is Now resting in peace may god be with you and your family you are all In my prays alway remember the good times you had with him
My condolences to all of you. I will keep David and all of you in my prayers. Cherish all the memories you have of David. The memories will help you each and every day going forward. May David rest in peace. God bless the Butler Family.
My heart is so sad. I loved David very much. I know he is with my mom, she was always so proud of him (and all her nieces and nephews). My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Our hearts are saddened by the loss of your father. May the comfort of God help you during this difficult time. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
Love,
Vargas Family 🙏🏻
May David rest in peace and be rewarded for his years of pro bono work in defense of pro-lifers.
May David rest in peace and be rewarded for his pro-bono legal defense of pro-life people who acted in defense of children threatened by abortion.
Andrew,
I am very sorry to hear of the loss of your father. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Corinne
David sounds like an intelligent, interesting, caring person who was involved in the community. John and I wish we had met him. We send our love to all the Butler family who will miss him.
Dave was one of my mentors in life and law. Like Dave, I am a also practicing attorney in Quincy and a member of the squirrels club. Dave was always there to answer my questions, provide sage advice and help as a friend. Over the years I witnessed Dave help so many people who needed an Attorney. He was compassionate, understanding and zealous in his advocacy of others. He was so proud of his sons and loved Betsy dearly. I am so sorry for your loss.
My condolences to the family. Dave was dear to many of us, from our first days together at Boston College in general and the Honors Program in particular. Dave and I kept up over the years as lawyers, each of us toiling away in the pits. He was a great intellect, but more importantly, a kind and loving man.