Susan L. Monack

Susan Wells Lawrence Monack, of Mashpee and formerly of Milton, died on January 25th from Alzheimer’s disease.
Susan was the beloved wife of Donald R. Monack, and the devoted mother of Julia W. McLetchie and her husband Chip of Winchester, and the late Gregory B. Monack. She was the loving Grandmother of Cecelia (Cece), Charles (Charlie) and Gracie, all of Winchester. Sister of Jeffrey Lawrence and his wife Cindy of Bethel, CT. Daughter-in law of Donald A. Monack and sister-in-law to Jeffrey and Susan Monack, all of Branford, CT, and sister-in-law to Robert and Angelina Monack of East Haven, CT. Susan is also survived by cousins, nieces, nephews, and many friends.
Susan was born on June 20, 1950 in Stamford, CT, to the late Donald and Anne (Carpenter) Lawrence. She was raised in Stratford, CT and graduated from the Northfield School for Girls (now Northfield Mount Herman) in 1968. She obtained a bachelor’s degree in Sociology from Connecticut College in 1972, and later earned a Masters in Social Work from the University of Connecticut as well as a Masters Degree in Management of Human Services from Brandeis University. Susan cared deeply for others. During her career she held many roles in the human services and social work fields, including at the Visiting Nurses Association and the Department of Elder Affairs. Susan loved music and had a beautiful voice, which she put to good use performing as a longtime member of the Dedham Choral Society. Susan was active in the Milton community and in the First Parish Unitarian Church, of which she was a longtime member.
Susan and Donald were married in 1973, and traveled through all of the ups and downs of life together for the next 46 years, including raising two children together and supporting each other through the loss of their beloved son in 2003. In recent years, Susan’s favorite way to spend her time was in the company of her grandchildren, who brought her great joy. Susan was a loving, generous friend and she opened her home and her heart to others freely. She will be greatly missed.
Friends and family are invited to visiting hours in Dolan Funeral Home, 460 Granite Ave., EAST MILTON SQUARE, Wednesday, January 29th from 4-7 pm. Funeral Service at First Parish of Milton (Unitarian), 535 Canton Ave., Milton on Thursday, January 30, at 11 o’clock. Interment at Milton Cemetery and reception to follow.
In lieu of flowers, donations in Susan’s memory may be sent to either the Alzheimer’s Association, 309 Waverley Oaks Rd, Waltham, MA 02452, or to the Gregory Monack Memorial Fund, c/o Noble and Greenough School, 10 Campus Drive, Dedham, MA 02026.
Guestbook Entries
Sorry for your loss
It was pleasure to have known her
Susan, I will always cherish our friendship. I’m looking at the photos I have reminding me of the fun memories we have shared over the years. We always had a good time and lots of laughs. I’m missing your smile and friendship. It was very special to me. Thank you my friend.
Charlie and I send condolences to Donald, Julia, Chip, your beautiful grandchildren and other family members. We are so sorry for your loss. Your friends always. The Captain and Sue.
I am shocked and speechless with your family’s loss. Susan was my yoga student for many years including the unspeakable time of your brothers passing. The heaviest of Henares you must have at watching her decline she was a beautiful woman with a heart and soul. She loved you Julia so much and was so happy to be moving closer to you. I am so so sorry for this loss I will see you on Wednesday jan 29th. If there is anything I can do to support you and your family I am here for you
I don’t know you I’m so sorry to hear about your wife passing she is now resting in peace may god be with you and your family you are all in my prays always remember the good times you had with her
Don and Julia,
I’m so sorry for the loss of you wife and mom. Although I never met your Susan, I feel I’ve gotten a glimpse of your active and loving family through our Facebook connection. And, of course, I’ve known the wonderful man your Susan was married to since we were 19.
Please know I’m thinking of you at this sad time– knowing that you have endured more than anyone should with the loss of your Greg and the pain of your wife and mom’s decline with Alzheimer’s.
I’ve enjoyed seeing the pictures of your beautiful grandchildren, Don. I know from experience there’s no better medicine for sadness than spending time with them.
Take care of each other and love to you both,
Susan
My deepest sympathy to Susan’s family.
Donald and family,
Marianne and I are very sad to learn of Susan’s passing. I didn’t know Susan, but I am friends with Don and wished I did know Susan when she was healthy. Susan’s obituary is wonderful. Susan was clearly a remarkable person .
Our thoughts and prayers are with Don and the Monack family.
Sincerely,
George and Marianne Ganzenmuller
I’M SO SORRY FOR YOU LOSS. ITS HARD TO LET GO WHEN THE LOVE FOR THEM IS ALWAYS THERE. I MISS BILL EVERYDAY OF MY LIFE PLUS EARL AND YOUR FAMILY. THEY ARE THE GREATEST PEOPLE I’VE KNOW IN MY LIFE. THEY BOTH WILL BE MISS JULIE. MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO ALL YOUR FAMILY AND MUCH LOVE. GOD BLESS YOU ALL AND MAY GOD FOLLOW YOU THOUGH THESES HARD TIMES, HE SURE HAS ME. LOVE AND HUGS AND KISSES. CAROL.
I am so sorry to learn of Susan’s illness and passing. What a kindly person she was. My heart goes out to all the Monack family.
Dear Donald and Julia,
Jerry and I are so sorry for your loss. Your wife and your mother was beautiful inside and out. She had a heart of gold and a beautiful smile. I will cherish memories of girlfriend dinners, riding the bike trail and our time together on trips. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. 💝
Knowing Susan, was a blessing. Having also recently lost an only son, we forged a new friendship of trust, understanding and love. We are so thankful for that. Susan, you were truly God’s messenger of good and righteousness. We will always miss you, but so blessed to have known you. Love, Pam and Craig
Julia & Don, I’m so sorry about Susan’s death, and that she had to have this horrible illness. I’m sorry that your family has had to endure so much: losing Susan, and Gregory, at such a young age.
Julia, thank you for posting the wonderful photos of your mom. She was such a natural beauty.
My husband, Greg, and I were great friends of your dad at Purdue, and in Newport. I have fond memories of him as a groomsman in our wedding. My sympathies to both of you, and to your family and friends.