Ian Valentino Bodden, December 14, Service in Faith Christian Church, 310 Harvard St., Dorchester, Saturday, December 27 at 10:30 am. Visitation at the church, 9:30 – 10:30 am. Interment Fairview Cemetery, Hyde Park.
Guestbook Entries
May you forever rest easy! You were an amazing man and I pray that you have found comfort, I will never forget all our great times and laughs…please watch over your boys and always let them know they are loved by you ..all my love until we meet again
Ian, one of the coolest people I’ve ever had a conversation with. Your outlook on the world was incredible. I didn’t get to see you often but I when I did I made sure to give you the biggest awkward hug I could; then I would take up as much time as you’d let me to talk, make jokes and babble about random things. At the time it was just small talk, but now those memories are priceless. Although you are not with us physically, your fundamental nature and peaceful spirit lives in our hearts. Dude, I’m going to miss you. RIP Bro….
Not a single day goes by that i don’t think about you. When i found out my uncle passed the other day i turned on the radio and “Throw some d’s” was on. I know that was you, thank you. I can’t remember the last time i heard that song. Remember when we used to just drive around for hours and listen to your down south music mixtapes. I miss you soooo much.This is the longest ive gone without seeing you in 11 years. I love you more than anything in the world.
Ian we all miss u so much higher I’m sitting here with the boys and they were asking when u r coming home so I showed them a star they they can look at every nite and know u r looking den on them they love u so much we will neva let them forget u n we see u in them everyday I hope u r at peace Ian there is not a day that goes by that u aren’t mentioned we all love u very much
Today’s a bad day Ian. I miss you so much. People probably think I’m crazy for writing on here so much. I can’t stop crying i don’t know why youre gone and i don’t know how I’m going to live without you. Im sorry i couldn’t save you. I would give anything to go back to that day and do some many things differently. I just want you back but i know i can’t. Ill always love you. The boys miss you so much. Chase keeps asking when you’re coming home i wish i could give them an answer. Watch over us. We love you.
30 days without you is 30 days too many. The pain i feel is unbearable. The boys have been asking about you so much lately. I will never let them forget how much you loved them. I love you forever.
Pats are playing this weekend !!!! I know you’re going crazy up there over this game. I miss you entirely too much. I would give anything in the world to hear you say “The f***ing pats are playing mannnn” lol I keep waiting for the day that I can accept that youre gone but I cant. Our kids need you Ian. Protect them please.
Just wanted to tell you that I love you. Not a day passes that you don’t cross my mind. Idk how im going to get through life without you, but I know you are always with us. I love you more than words could ever say. Please continue to watch over me. 12-15-03 until forever..
Ian , I have no idea how I’m even finding it in me to write this to you right now. I’m pretty sure its because of the dream that I just had of you. The very first dream ive had of you since youve been gone at that . I was crying so bad and you were hugging me so tight & it felt so real. I never thought I’d feel your feeling again. I guess you can say I’ve been in denial or maybe just to afraid to face the reality that physically ill never see or hear you again . But reality is also that I miss you more than any amount of words could explain. No one in this world can bring what you brought into my life. I love you to infinity IVB always. I know your flying freely , watch over all your boys and continue to meet when I close my eyes ❤
Ian, 16 1/2 months later and this still feels like a horrible dream. I think about you everyday, not a second goes by that your not on my mind. I look back and think of all the things that could of been done differently. I know I can’t change what happened and I’ll never understand why but it kills me inside knowing that there’s nothing none of us could of done to have you still with us. I don’t know how.you didn’t know how.loved you were or how important you were to so many people. We all love you and miss you everyday. Things aren’t the same. We only part just to meet again and meet again we will, like we always have. ❤❤ Always watch over your sons.
Guestbook Entries
May you forever rest easy! You were an amazing man and I pray that you have found comfort, I will never forget all our great times and laughs…please watch over your boys and always let them know they are loved by you ..all my love until we meet again
I hope you know how much I love you Ian. I will always miss you, please never leave my side and keep our kids safe. Love you forever.
I love you !!! Miss u dearly rest easy 🙁
thinking of you bro.. RIP… love sister Ana Ruth.
Ian, one of the coolest people I’ve ever had a conversation with. Your outlook on the world was incredible. I didn’t get to see you often but I when I did I made sure to give you the biggest awkward hug I could; then I would take up as much time as you’d let me to talk, make jokes and babble about random things. At the time it was just small talk, but now those memories are priceless. Although you are not with us physically, your fundamental nature and peaceful spirit lives in our hearts. Dude, I’m going to miss you. RIP Bro….
IAN I MISS YOU MORE THAN WORDS COULD EVER SAY. PLEASE CONTINUE TO WATCH OVER AND PROTECT US ALL. REST EASY MY GENTLE GIANT. LOVE YOUR BIG SIS, KYSHA!
Not a single day goes by that i don’t think about you. When i found out my uncle passed the other day i turned on the radio and “Throw some d’s” was on. I know that was you, thank you. I can’t remember the last time i heard that song. Remember when we used to just drive around for hours and listen to your down south music mixtapes. I miss you soooo much.This is the longest ive gone without seeing you in 11 years. I love you more than anything in the world.
Ian we all miss u so much higher I’m sitting here with the boys and they were asking when u r coming home so I showed them a star they they can look at every nite and know u r looking den on them they love u so much we will neva let them forget u n we see u in them everyday I hope u r at peace Ian there is not a day that goes by that u aren’t mentioned we all love u very much
Today’s a bad day Ian. I miss you so much. People probably think I’m crazy for writing on here so much. I can’t stop crying i don’t know why youre gone and i don’t know how I’m going to live without you. Im sorry i couldn’t save you. I would give anything to go back to that day and do some many things differently. I just want you back but i know i can’t. Ill always love you. The boys miss you so much. Chase keeps asking when you’re coming home i wish i could give them an answer. Watch over us. We love you.
30 days without you is 30 days too many. The pain i feel is unbearable. The boys have been asking about you so much lately. I will never let them forget how much you loved them. I love you forever.
Pats are playing this weekend !!!! I know you’re going crazy up there over this game. I miss you entirely too much. I would give anything in the world to hear you say “The f***ing pats are playing mannnn” lol I keep waiting for the day that I can accept that youre gone but I cant. Our kids need you Ian. Protect them please.
Just wanted to tell you that I love you. Not a day passes that you don’t cross my mind. Idk how im going to get through life without you, but I know you are always with us. I love you more than words could ever say. Please continue to watch over me. 12-15-03 until forever..
I love you. Always
I would give anything in the world to make these past 5 months be a really bad dream, I hope you know that. I love you, always.
Missing you every single day. I love you.
Thank you for never leaving my side. I love you forever.
I love you more than you could ever imagine. Don’t ever leave my side.
Ian , I have no idea how I’m even finding it in me to write this to you right now. I’m pretty sure its because of the dream that I just had of you. The very first dream ive had of you since youve been gone at that . I was crying so bad and you were hugging me so tight & it felt so real. I never thought I’d feel your feeling again. I guess you can say I’ve been in denial or maybe just to afraid to face the reality that physically ill never see or hear you again . But reality is also that I miss you more than any amount of words could explain. No one in this world can bring what you brought into my life. I love you to infinity IVB always. I know your flying freely , watch over all your boys and continue to meet when I close my eyes ❤
Ian, 16 1/2 months later and this still feels like a horrible dream. I think about you everyday, not a second goes by that your not on my mind. I look back and think of all the things that could of been done differently. I know I can’t change what happened and I’ll never understand why but it kills me inside knowing that there’s nothing none of us could of done to have you still with us. I don’t know how.you didn’t know how.loved you were or how important you were to so many people. We all love you and miss you everyday. Things aren’t the same. We only part just to meet again and meet again we will, like we always have. ❤❤ Always watch over your sons.
14 1/2 months
I love you. Always.